The power of staring.

Bionic eye picture - Unknown Artist

 The power of staring.I do not know much about the causes and the mental flows that go through another mans mind.

The guilty side.
 
But what i know is that it happens to all of us,and it happens on a daily basis.As i always offer my own understanding of whatever thought in mind before i actually lay the real, and investigated facts of the matter.

Here is what i have realized about this mankind manner,and  way in which we were made,it has been hard-wired into our skulls.
The human eye which is connected to the brain is a looking tool,so that's exactly what it's going to do.
On the one side we have realised.When one human being stares at another,it gives the other an uncomfortable feeling, a lot of things go through the victims mind.In some cases it might be a harmless look,but in other instances it is a calculation and with all these in mind situations that we as human beings have,you might be a target in a situation that you're aware of,people do not trust one another nowadays,we are out for the kill,and with no sympathy or mercy some people's missions will be completed.

The innocent side.

In some situations there is  nothing but an innocent stare,perhaps the person is admiring the beauty of the next person's structure,and facial contours.
In this day and age there are so many things to see,we as humans have came up with so many things to feed the hunger that lies in these eyes.With no other angle to look at we decide involuntarily to do this to our fellow brother,or sister,with no intention to harm or cause any misunderstanding of any sort.
We are all human,meant to occupy this world together.So we have to understand certain human reflexes have to become understood,and thoroughly self-mentally interpreted and known why they happen.


So lets not take a right that was freely and rightfully handed down to other humans and flush it down in the name doubt,if i just took a look and didn't touch or scratch you in anyway,lets take it as an innocent look.

The beginning of a new dawn.

Sunrise image from an anonymous Photographer.

As in the above image,each and everyday starts with the upheaval of a brand new sun,so to say,but i has not been scientifically proven as of yet.

The reason i'm busy with this Blog is because,i believe everyone can change,as always being said,"Change is inevitable.".
I have pasted a picture of the rising Sun as a notation of a brand new way of life,and starting on a brand new slate,this is the beginning of a brand new day,and brand new possibilities.This would most probably be a time whereby you thinking of the future as a colorful Era,a time that is full of correction s of the things we did in the past.It has been said"We learn from our previous mistakes.".And "If your life has no mistakes,you aren't progressing.".This is a time in your life where you only think of the positive,but you're aware of the negative's because you're a realist,and know anything is possible,you aren't willing to put give-up.No matter how Bruised your hands are.This is time you believe anything is possible,a time for progress,a time to excel at everything you do,a time of progress,a time to understand the true meaning of seriousness.

The measures,and extends you are willing to go to have been embedded into you,and seem to be part of what you were brought to Earth to accomplish.You have thoughts that are trying to bring you down by reminding you of the detrimental situations that have happened in the past,that are accompanied by repercussions that might destroy what's ahead.My advice to you my fellow brother,and sister,"As long as you still have time,anything can be fixed.".There id a solution to every situation on Earth.It is usually said,"Problems are brought by humanbeing,and are solved by a humanbeing.".So do not hesitate,or become pushed into a corner of self-hostility,do not torture yourself with what's in the past.Focus on the now,and think about tomorrow,have tomorrow's thoughts so well figured out you'd swear you watching a movie.

I will seal this by saying,"Whatever it is that occurs in your tomorrow,is a result of today's Maneuver's.".Everything starts in the mind,eventually one day you decide,"Why not?".Go ahead and take charge of your life."If you do not run your life,it will rum you.".

K.D. Sebapu     

Anger management.

 

Many would say the word anger is a feeling of displeasure,and hostility.  

Well i was going to post a bit earlier,until i realized i'm not in a god state to be displaying a worthy of reading Blog in the state i was in,so i thought let me cut down on the anger,and make sure what you lay your eyes upon,isn't nothing less than pleasing worth reading stuff.  

As i mentioned in the above explanation of anger.

I whole heatedly agree with my definition.

One thing i would like to carry as a lesson in this blog is that never let your anger influence your feelings,and don't let your anger be above everything you about to do,what i mean to say is that,"Anger should be just another feeling you turn a blind eye to.",for all i care you could just act as if t didn't happen,or turn that hostile moment into a temporary joke.

The reason i advice you turn it into an temporary joke,instead of a lifetime joke is because you do not wanna carry such bad moments for the rest of your life.They will do nothing but bring you down.

Each and every human being has their own level of anger,and unfortunately my level is very high.

And i;m thinking of seeking professional help,if you feel like you in the same situation as i am,try your level best to maintain it in an as civilized manner as possible.Which is what i tried,and succeeded at.

Thanks to asking advice from very good friends.The best way to go about a situation,is to get a couple of point of views from people you think are sane.

The moral of this post is to send a civilized,and  sane message to the public of whatever nation,i do not care where you from,or whose child you are,we all should not crack,or give in to making these perpetrators feel like they're succeeding.

A very smart way to make them not realize they're not winning is to beat them at their own game,by so doing you making them feel a taste of their own medicine,but try to strategically not make them realize you're retaliating.

So go ahead do the wright thing,do not give them stance to do as they please whenever they please.

With Anger.

K.D. Sebapu

Happines gauge in South Africa.

Happiness index are a world wide phenomenon,but yet the South African Government whose society according to me is one of the most unsatisfied civilization of the 21st century.

Let us take a tour and view all the countries that we look up to,for starters lets take our eye and throw it further north.A country of pure intellectualism,a country regarded as one of the greatest country in the world.

And this i found in The Guardian,"The UK government is poised to start measuring people's psychological and environmental well being, bidding to be among the first countries to officially monitor happiness.",and this dear friends is an initiative that was incepted in 2010.

Coming to the subject of the matter South Africa,which i mentioned according to me has the most unsatisfied individuals in the world,would it be wright to say,we as South Africans do not voice our concerns,if thats the matter at hand what is a government meant to do,why is a government voted into power,to do good for the public.

Studies like these will help our government combat problems because they will be more aware of how the public feels,not that they're not aware of the matters at the moment,but sites,and studies like these will make it possible to monitor governments progress,which is a very big problem at the moment.

By K.D Sebapu

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Facebooks Bots.

A Blurry image OF Facebook CEO Mark Zuckerberg By Mike Elgan

Facebook is skating on thin ice,with recent findings being that"Advertisers on the popular social site Facebook found out that there are bots releasing their adverts to the public instead of an actual human being doing it." Apparently facebook CEO Mark Zuckerberg has had a few words to say for his company,but not regarding the matter at hand.

The company that has took the courtesy to find out about these "Bots" also known as robots which mimmick human actions,announced on facebook that they're terminating their contract with facebook,and asked facebook to change their Company name.This is the part of the chunk where company CEO mentioned a word or two,in direct quoiting "Facebook told them (allegedly) that in order to change their name on Facebook, they would have to spend $2,000 more per month on advertising.",as of yet i do not have enough information about the rules governing such actions,but stick around as i will gather the information and drop the chunk while it's still Hot..................    

The campaign to re-elect President Obama has begun. Marc Jacobs, Derek Lam, Diane von Furstenberg and Beyonce are just a few of fashion’s biggest leaders who have designed low-cost items that will be offered as fundraising during a PR campaign.
Legendary designers, celebrities and Fashionistas are putting their best foot forward to assist President Barack Obama's re-election. As part of the new campaign, 27 designers and celebrities were asked to design low-cost fashion items, including both clothing and accessories. Not only will these items help in fundraising, they will also play a crucial part in the PR battle.
The designed items will be exposed on a high-profile fundraising event that will be held in Chicago next month. During the event, the new pop-up shop for Runway to Win will be revealed.
Among the newly designed items – a T-shirt by Marc Jacobs with the slogan “I Vote Obama” along with the designer's signature. Beyonce and Tina Knowles have also chosen to design a printed baby-sized T-shirt with both the President’s name and campaign logo engraved.
Designers Diane von Furstenberg and Derek Lam have chosen to design chic bags for the campaign. Lam designed a printed bag with the slogan “Obama 2012”. Von Furstenberg has created two bags – one of which is entirely red with the words “Obama 2012” and hearts on opposite sides. The second bag has a more patriotic look, as the designer used the American flag as the background. Along the red stripes is written “Obama 12”, and instead of the classic 50 stars, von Furstenberg uniquely created 50 heart shapes.
The high-fashion event will be hosted by Vogue editor, Anna Wintour, who is a world-renowned icon herself. Supermodels Iman and Chanel Iman are also among the glamorous hosts of the evening. Whether Barack Obama will be re-elected or not, this is truly a one-of-a-kind campaign the world is waiting to see!

Facebook Founder Mark Zuckerberg Updates His Relationship Status to “Married”! (Because, Um, He Got Married—In a Surprise Ceremony!) : glamour.com

Facebook Founder Mark Zuckerberg Updates His Relationship Status to “Married”! (Because, Um, He Got Married—In a Surprise Ceremony!) : glamour.com

The couple are said to be able to keep secrets,and i say,they are just not keeping their eyes,or concentration on other people's expectations,and thoughts of what they expected them to do.Facebook founder Mark Zuckerberg,and all-time partner Priscilla Chan tied the knot at a personal wedding function hosted at their house.Not more than 100 people were invited there,family members and friends were invited to witness this wedding,and help celebrate Priscilla"s completion of her B-med degree.