Anger management.

 

Many would say the word anger is a feeling of displeasure,and hostility.  

Well i was going to post a bit earlier,until i realized i'm not in a god state to be displaying a worthy of reading Blog in the state i was in,so i thought let me cut down on the anger,and make sure what you lay your eyes upon,isn't nothing less than pleasing worth reading stuff.  

As i mentioned in the above explanation of anger.

I whole heatedly agree with my definition.

One thing i would like to carry as a lesson in this blog is that never let your anger influence your feelings,and don't let your anger be above everything you about to do,what i mean to say is that,"Anger should be just another feeling you turn a blind eye to.",for all i care you could just act as if t didn't happen,or turn that hostile moment into a temporary joke.

The reason i advice you turn it into an temporary joke,instead of a lifetime joke is because you do not wanna carry such bad moments for the rest of your life.They will do nothing but bring you down.

Each and every human being has their own level of anger,and unfortunately my level is very high.

And i;m thinking of seeking professional help,if you feel like you in the same situation as i am,try your level best to maintain it in an as civilized manner as possible.Which is what i tried,and succeeded at.

Thanks to asking advice from very good friends.The best way to go about a situation,is to get a couple of point of views from people you think are sane.

The moral of this post is to send a civilized,and  sane message to the public of whatever nation,i do not care where you from,or whose child you are,we all should not crack,or give in to making these perpetrators feel like they're succeeding.

A very smart way to make them not realize they're not winning is to beat them at their own game,by so doing you making them feel a taste of their own medicine,but try to strategically not make them realize you're retaliating.

So go ahead do the wright thing,do not give them stance to do as they please whenever they please.

With Anger.

K.D. Sebapu

Happines gauge in South Africa.

Happiness index are a world wide phenomenon,but yet the South African Government whose society according to me is one of the most unsatisfied civilization of the 21st century.

Let us take a tour and view all the countries that we look up to,for starters lets take our eye and throw it further north.A country of pure intellectualism,a country regarded as one of the greatest country in the world.

And this i found in The Guardian,"The UK government is poised to start measuring people's psychological and environmental well being, bidding to be among the first countries to officially monitor happiness.",and this dear friends is an initiative that was incepted in 2010.

Coming to the subject of the matter South Africa,which i mentioned according to me has the most unsatisfied individuals in the world,would it be wright to say,we as South Africans do not voice our concerns,if thats the matter at hand what is a government meant to do,why is a government voted into power,to do good for the public.

Studies like these will help our government combat problems because they will be more aware of how the public feels,not that they're not aware of the matters at the moment,but sites,and studies like these will make it possible to monitor governments progress,which is a very big problem at the moment.

By K.D Sebapu

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